Sunday afternoon thoughts
April 27, 2008 at 2:10 pm | In Life | 2 CommentsTags: boys
As I’m sitting here, I’m confused about Jenner. And I’m also very tired and dealing with a weird rash on my arms. But thankfully the house is silent but for the clatter of the keys.
So last night I texted Jenner and told him of our plans. Luckily my friend B stayed in town, so there was four of us that ended up going out. So after I texted him around 8pm, he wrote back and said he’d see us at the bar. We said we’d be there around 10. Around 11, he showed up. During the hour gap, I was pretty nervous and unsure. But B and J calmed me down and fed me vodka drinks. So he showed up and gave me a hug which was nice. He met B and J and we all drank and talked for a while. During this time, he kept touching my arm and smiling. He spoke mostly to me and we talked about work, Glasses (turns out she annoyed the hell out of him
) and law in general. He did make an interesting remark when he said there were some cute girls at the bar and asked us if we thought any of the guys there were cute. Interesting right? Not sure how to take that. So after while we all went to another bar and we had some more drinks. We sat down at a table and continued to just talk mainly to one another. He continued to touch my arm a lot and we made eye contact the whole time. Which I’m usually not comfortable doing but it was so easy with him. So then the bar closed and we gave him a ride home. He said thanks for inviting him out and that’d he had a great time.
So the good points? Talked to me a lot, bought my friend a drink, touched my arm a lot, said I was bright and would go far in my career, made solid eye contact and was flirty.
The bad points? The remarks about the cute girls, and the fact he didn’t really talk to my friends, and I’m still clear on whether he’s interested.
My friends didn’t think he was attractive, and also were not happy with the remarks about the girls. BUT they both said he is interested and they got the vibe. So maybe I’m just crazy. I don’t know.
I think I should just wait for him to contact me, but my friend A (who’s a boy) told me to wait a week, and if he doesn’t call me, to call him and ask him out. Alone.
I do feel like my interest is slightly dissipating though… or maybe I’m just crazy
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Right:
Arm touching: Good
Talking to you: Good
Not talking to friends: Good, from a he likes you point of view, but not so great on the ‘will he get on with my friends’ side. Hopefully he was just being too eager.
Mentioning about hot girls: I’m going to go with ‘Misunderstood’. Clearly the guy is an idiot, but he’s shy and a bloke and he likes you, so that’s about par for the cause.
The explanation:
Let’s give him the benefit of the doubt and say he was trying to [badly] set up a situation where he could say that you where one of the hot girls and by asking about if you thought there were any hot guys he could gauge your level of interest. Probably sounded great in his head and then just came out all wrong.
So, in summary:
Yes, you’re crazy, but then who isn’t?
Comment by Dom — April 28, 2008 #
Hmmm, this chap seems to be a bit complex to work out.
The contact with you is good. As to him not talking to your friends, he might have felt that he wasn’t part of the circle (especially if he is a little shy), or that he simply wanted to spend time talking to you instead?
As for talking about other hot girls, well that is just a schoolboy error. You should have kicked him in the nuts for that!
I do think that if you get him on his own, then you’ll know really quickly whether there is a spark there or not.
Comment by Perpetual — April 30, 2008 #